“I’ve Always Wanted to Learn, But…”

I’m too old.
I can’t do it anymore.
I don’t have any time.
My time has passed — language learning is better for kids.

I hear this all the time from prospective students — probably at least twice a month.

It usually starts with a parent reaching out, full of good intentions, eager to coordinate classes for their kids. And then, almost like clockwork, they’ll say, “It was always my dream to learn, but I never did. I guess I’ll just invest in my kids because it’s too late for me.”

That’s when I pause the conversation.

“Why?” I always ask.

And that’s when these pesky little lines from above start creeping in.

Yes, of course, kids are amazing language learners, we all know that. But why do we assume that means adults can't learn too? It’s not either/or — both kids and adults can be successful language learners. They aren’t mutually exclusive!

Let’s talk realistically here: 

Here’s something that will likely be easier for kids than adults:

• Pronunciation — because their language skills are still developing and more flexible.
  

… and honestly, that’s it.

Now, here are a few things that will likely be easier for adults than kids:

• Real-world application

• Grasping grammar structures

• Expanding niche vocabulary
  

See what I mean?

When you say you can’t because of your age, it’s simply not true. Sure, kids have certain advantages — but so do you as an adult.

So YES, absolutely invest in your kids' language learning. But also, invest in yourself. It’s never too late.

I once taught an 88-year-old man — and you know what? He did great. And you can too.